Category Archives: milestones

This picture has nothing to do with the content of this blog. Tyler’s teething, so he makes this face a lot.

Tyler has some pretty cool toys. He has this really awesome ball that’s got a plastic monkey perched on the top of it. It makes noises and music when you roll it, and the monkey somehow manages to always stay on top. He has a turtle that counts to four, says shape names, and sings to the tune of an Italian song. He also has a spinning top type toy with animals on it. It sings, counts, lights up, and makes animal sounds.

They’re great toys and, as a bonus to me, aren’t very expensive. I can see how these toys can help to teach things, like cause and effect, and other cool terms that aren’t coming to my mind right now. And Tyler plays with none of them. I try to engage him, I really do. I giggle like a little girl while I bat the monkey ball around, amazed at the monkey’s ability to balance precariously atop the green and blue ball. My acting ability is top notch. I can fool any child under the age of two into believing that I am genuinely delighted by this marvel of a toy. This is, of course, partly because I am genuinely delighted by this marvel of a toy. I want to take it apart and see how this modern-day version of a Weeble Wobble works.

I hope cardboard isn’t unhealthy

Tyler has no such interest. He looks at it – with just a hint of curiousity – for a moment, then proceeds to chew on my slipper. While it’s on my foot. And I don’t stop him. I’ll have to file this post under the “bad parenting” category.

As much as I’ve been praying that Tyler will develop superpowers, and become a real-life superhero, the one thing I do not want is for him to have any psychic powers. I find myself less-than-amused at his innate ability to find everything that he shouldn’t be playing with. If there are ten toys surrounding Tyler, and one of Delilah’s chewed-up ropes, Tyler will see the rope, and only the rope, and he will commence on chewing said rope. Why he has no desire to play with the toys that we paid good money for is beyond the scope of my knowledge. I’m going to become a millionaire by developing a product that will be guaranteed to get any child interested in any item of your choosing. It’s going to be a sticker that simply says, “Keep out of reach of children”. You put that sticker on his least favorite toy, and he’ll never put it down again.

Until I manufacture and market my idea, Sarah and I have to try to stay one step ahead of Tyler. I have a feeling that we will be playing this “game” for years and years to come. If we so much as blink after setting him on the floor, he’ll have a power cord in his mouth. Tyler must think that “no” is a slang term for “awesome work, my dear boy. Your very survival is solely dependent on your eating cords at any and every opportunity”. Tyler’s has 2 other favorite items in our house. One is either a plant stand, or the ivy plant resting upon it; we haven’t determined yet which of the two he is enamored with. He grabs at it every chance he gets. No amount of “no”, or “bad”, or “ucky” will dissuade him from reaching for it. When he does get his paws on it, he slides it closer to him. The sound of the wooden legs sliding across the hardwood floor is like a Klaxon alarm for us. We immediately have to charge after him and start with the calls of “no”, and “we don’t play with that”.

Tyler’s other, and probably more, favorite household item is Delilah’s water dish. I don’t know how to keep him out of it. So far, all he’s interested in is splashing his hand in it, but I’m petrified of what could happen if left to his own devices long enough. I’ve been unable to come up with a solution that allows Delilah to get to her water, but still keeps Tyler away from it. Maybe I could install one of those wireless fence systems in our house. Anytime Tyler goes near the water dish, which will be just outside of the boundary, he will be delivered a high-voltage reminder of his lapse in judgment via a wireless elastic headband. I’m open to ideas, dear readers. In the meanwhile, I’ve got something else I’d like to talk about.

The library group that Sarah and Tyler attend had Valentine’s Day treats on Tuesday. So, Sarah went to the store Monday night (yes babe, I just called you out for waiting until the last minute) to pick up some ingredients. She made a chocolate covered strawberry concoction, and it was delicious. Sarah is very gifted in the kitchen. It’s win-win for me, because she loves to cook and try new things, and I love to eat. The added perk is that I get to be a taste tester when she makes these delicious desserts. If it weren’t for my insane metabolism, I should easily weigh in at 300 or more pounds.

I’ve jumped off track. While Sarah was at the store, I played on the floor with Tyler. He was having a blast knocking over the towers of blocks that I was building. Unfortunately, our floors aren’t very level, so any stacks higher than 6 or 7 blocks is impressive. As I completed one such stack, I turned to Tyler to let him know I needed his destructive assistance. I found myself unable to form words or even thoughts when I looked at him. When thought did finally return, I had trouble deciding on whether I should yell at Tyler, or grab my camera. I decided to do both.

“Tyler!!!”, I yelled, jumping to my feet. “Don’t move! Where’s my camera?”

Yup, he can pull himself up now.

With the help of some living room furniture, Tyler – all by himself – pulled himself to a stand. I didn’t run fast enough, though. When I returned, he was crawling to the tower o’ blocks to demonstrate his skill at unstacking. Fortunately for my “I have to document this” side, and unfortunately for my “he’s growing up too fast” side, Tyler crawled to the entertainment center and pulled himself up, four more times! One of those times, he turned and looked directly into my eyes, and I swear to you that the expression on his face said, “watch this”. Then he just let go and plopped on his butt, and smiled at me.

I really was excited, really, and I expressed it as much as I could to him, with high pitched wows, and saying stuff like “good job” and “that’s my big boy”. But I’m worried that Tyler saw the fear that swam just below the surface of my visible emotions.

Tyler just let go of the only thing holding him up